择友问题

　　Some people choose friends who are different from themselves. Others choose friends who are similar to themselves. 　Compare the advantages of having friends who are different form you with the advantages of having friends who are similar to you. Which kind of friend do you prefer for yourself? Why?

　　试题分析:来源：考试大

　　一 条件: 择友问题/有人选择与自己不同者为友/有人选择与己相似者为友

　　二 要求: 比较两种交友方式的优点,说明你选择何种类型的朋友并说明理由

　　三 写作分析: 本题为日常话题,不愁无话可谈,只愁细谈不易.题目要求比较优点,写时应以优点为主,不利的一方面也可适当提及.根据题目要求,文章应分两部分,一部分谈两种交友方式的优点,另一部分谈自己的做法与理由.具体自然段可灵活掌握.

　　People choose friends in differrent ways. Some people like to choose those who are different from themselves while others prefer those who are similar to themselves. Each of the two ways has its own advantages.来源：考试大

　　When people have friends similar to themselves, they and their friends chat, play, and do thing together natually and harmoniously. The result is that they all can feel relaxed and can trully enjoy each other's company. For instance, if an active and energetic guy proposes to his equally active and energetic friends that they should have some activities, it is more likely that his will agree at once. In this case, the guy who makes the proposal dose not have to consider carefully before he does it and his friends do not feel obliged to agree. Everybody is at ease and everybody can have a good time.

　　When a guy has friends different from him, the advantage he has is that he can mix with different people and benefit from the contacts with them. His friends may be different from him in character, education, occupation, social status, or political and religious beliefs. To make friends with them, he has to chat, play,or do things together with them. In the process of doing these, he can learn a lot of things that he has never experienced himself and he can also enjoy being with them if he knows them well.

　　However, each of the two ways of amking friends has its disadvantages. When a guy mixes with only people similar to himself, his social circle is small and he may miss a lot without realizing it. On the other hand, if a person amkes friends with peiple different ffrom himself, he has to be on the alert all the time and he has to be skillful in dealing with all kinds of people.来源：考试大

　　Comparing the advantages and disadvantages of the two ways, I think that it would be better for me to have a mixed number of friends---some who are similar to me and some who are different from me. In this way, I can have the best of both worlds. For instance, when I want to relax or when I am too tired to be careful about my speech and manner, I can stay with those friends who are like me. But, when I feel like it, it is also possible for me to stay with those who are diferrent from me and learn something new.

　　范文写法说明:来源：考试大

　　文章的观点是两类朋友都要交,此观点不再开头,而在结尾.具体手法是先分后合,用两段分别谈两种方法的优点,再用一段对两种方法的优缺点进行比较,最后在比较的基础上,谈个人做法.

　　第一段: 有题目引出文章第一部分观点:各有优点

　　第二段: 交与己相似的朋友的优点

　　第三段: 择与己不同者为友的优点

　　第四段: 两种交友方式的缺点

　　第五段: 自己的做法与理由

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