¡¡¡¡Directions:ª¥

¡¡¡¡You are going to read a list of headings and a text about what parents are supposed to do to guide their children into adulthood. Choose a heading from the list A¡ªG that best fits the meaning of each numbered part of the text (41~45).The first and last paragraphs of the text are not numbered. There are two extra headings that you do not need to use. Mark your answers on ANSWER SHEET 1.

¡¡¡¡A. Set a Good Example for Your Kidsª¥

¡¡¡¡B. Build You Kids¡¯ Work Skillsª¥

¡¡¡¡C. Place Time Limits on Leisure Activitiesª¥

¡¡¡¡D. Talk about the Future on a Regular Basisª¥

¡¡¡¡E. Help Kids Develop Coping Strategiesª¥

¡¡¡¡F. Help Your Kids Figure Out Who They Areª¥

¡¡¡¡G. Build Your Kids¡¯ Sense of Responsibility

¡¡¡¡How Can a Parent Help?

¡¡¡¡Mothers and fathers can do a lot to ensure a safe landing in early adulthood for their kids. Even if a job¡¯s starting salary seems too small to satisfy an emerging adult¡¯s need for rapid content, the transition from school to work can be less of a setback if the start-up adult is ready for the move. Here are a few measures, drawn from my book Ready or Not, Here Life Comes, that parents can take to prevent what I call ¡°work-life unreadiness¡±:ª¥

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¡¡¡¡You can start this process when they are 11 or 12. Periodically review their emerging strengths and weaknesses with them and work together on any shortcomings, like difficulty, in communicating well or collaborating. Also, identify the kinds of interests they keep coming back to, as these offer clues to the careers that will fit them best.ª¥

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¡¡¡¡Kids need a range of authentic role models¡ªas opposed to members of their clique, pop stars and vaunted athletes. Have regular dinner-table discussions about people the family knows and how they got where they are. Discuss the joys and downsides of your own carcer and encourage your kids to form some ideas about their own future. When asked what they want to do, they should be discouraged from saying ¡°I have no idea.¡± They can change their minds 200 times, but having only a foggy view of the future is of little good.ª¥

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¡¡¡¡Teachers are responsible for teaching kids how to learn; parents should be responsible for teaching them how to work. Assign responsibilities around the house and make sure homework deadlines are met. Encourage teenagers to take a part-time job. Kids need plenty of practice delaying gratification and deploying effective organizational skills, such as managing time and setting priorities.ª¥

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¡¡¡¡Playing video games encourages immediate content. And hours of watching TV shows with caned laughter only teaches kids to process information is passive way. At the same time, listening through earphones to the same monotonous beats for long stretches encourages kids to stay inside their bubble instead of pursuing other endeavors. All these activities can prevent the growth of important communication and thinking skills and make it difficult for kids so develop the kind of sustained concentration they will need for most jobs.ª¥